i have the king of super soakers!!!!. i use motherease sandy's with a prefold inside and a wool cover at night or a motherease airflow during the day.  i totally empathize.  and aios won't help you at all.  you may be better with pockets, but i haven't had much luck there either, just stick the the fitteds with a pf and cover.  even dad like the motheerease-won't touch anything else in the drawers.