I tried one AI2 and it didn't work for us at all. I have several AIOs and they don't last us more than 2 hours. Have you tried putting an insert on top of the AIOs or AI2s? Sometimes adding an extra layer would help. I prefer using pockets so I can stuff them as much or as little as needed. You can pre-stuff the pockets and have them ready to go for your DH! Good luck finding the right solution for your family!
Angie
Mom to Brady (4.04) and another little bun in the oven EDD 9.14.06