Thanks Blythe! With all the questions I have asked, it sure was nice to feel like I could give a little back for a change!! My DD will be 7 months on Monday so starting solids is something I have been doing A LOT of reading on lately. Who knew becoming a mommy would make me a research fanantic!! I want to know ALL that I can about everything so that I can make the best, most informed decision for my child.
That being said, you are so right about grandparents. My parents and my in-laws are always talking about the things my DH and I ate and at such an early age. Thankfully, they haven't been too pushy about the food topic with us. We started rice cereal mixed with BM with DD at about 5 1/2 months and then about 2-3 weeks later introduced bananas and now she has rice cereal mixed with banana for breakfast. I have tried avocados and sweet pototoes as well with her. But, even at almost 7 months, the only thing besides BM that she has on a regular basis is the cereal/banana for breakfast. I am in no hurry to get her eating tons of solids just yet. I do the cereal because it is iron fortified to make sure her iron stays in check...though I have no reason to think it wouldn't, I just know their iron stores usually run out about 6 months and they begin needing iron from another source. Like you said, as long as baby is thriving on BM, I wouldn't rush the solids. Our grandparents like to "joke" about giving my DD stuff when I am not around and I threaten bodily harm on them (jokingly of course). If ANYONE gives my child something without my permission, you better believe it will be a while before they are left alone with her again.
In the earlier months I got lots of questions from the grandparents and the sitter (when I had to return to work) about whether she was getting enough BM or not. I had a couple of occasions where I really let it get to me and even considered supplementing her with formula. Thank goodness I have a WONDERFUL, very supportive DH that assured me that he had no doubts our DD was getting enough to eat and was growing just fine. To this day I have not given her even a drop of formula and I am so glad. That is something I didn't want to do. You really do have to learn to trust your own instincts. Mommy really does know best. No one knows your child like you do. If something is wrong, you are going to know it. If your baby isn't getting enough to eat, you will know it...and baby will let you know it, too. When baby needs to eat, baby is going to let you know he/she needs to nurse...even if it is every 45 minutes. I went through a period like this, which is one of the times I let other people's questions make me question myself. It was just because DD was going through a growth spurt and all was fine.
Boy, I am just going on and on. Sorry!!! Like Blythe said, if baby appears not to be thriving, talk to the doc, but if all appears well and you don't feel like baby is not getting enough to eat, rest assured your milk is giving baby all they need.